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Why Port Coquitlam recently crowdfunded $15K for this couple's honeymoon

Courtenay Clapham and her husband married earlier than expected as a result of a fast-growing, unpredictable brain tumour that's resulted in seizures and three surgeries.
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Port Coquitlam raised more than $15,000 for Courtenay Clapham and her husband's honeymoon. She suffers from an unpredictable brain tumour that can cause seizures.

Nothing has worked for Courtenay Clapham in fighting what's been called an aggressive brain tumour.

This included chemo and radiation treatments, as well as three surgeries, and everything that lies ahead is undetermined with the stage-three primary central nervous system tumour, according to her mother-in-law Nancy Mercier.

In spite of all of the above, Clapham married her husband this past July — a month earlier than originally planned — but delayed the honeymoon while she was anticipating her third surgery.

But since then, the Port Coquitlam community has come through to pitch in more than $15,000 to help pay for the couple's honeymoon.

Mercier organized a GoFundMe campaign with that very goal, which has been surpassed in the weeks since it went public on Nov. 25.

"The doctors were able to remove 80-90% of the tumour," she explained about Clapham's third surgery, noting the tumour had covered roughly 25 per cent of her brain at the time.

"The doctors told us that this surgery was only undertaken in an effort to make her more comfortable....there is likely going to be no more surgeries, and any further steps are undetermined, as chemo and radiation have proven to be ineffective."

Diagnosed in 2021

According to Mercier's crowdfunding story, Clapham was formally diagnosed with Oligodendroglioma on Aug. 6, 2021.

It's a rare tumour that typically begins in the brain or spinal cord and spreads like wildfire that requires immediate attention and surgery to determine its path.

Three days after Clapham was diagnosed, doctors were able to remove 80 per cent of the tumour and followed up with radiation and chemo therapy via BC Cancer and a local clinic.

On June 8 this year, she suffered from a seizure and doctors determined the tumour had grown back despite a second surgery to remove more of the cancer in April.

She then began six drip chemo sessions over a three-week span, but they proved to be ineffective and Mercier said this fast-tracked her son's and Clapham's decision to get married on July 8.

"Courtenay, really wanted to go on a honeymoon, but decided not too and instead wanted to focus her time on health and her well being," Mercier explained.

She added Clapham's third surgery took place on Nov. 21, but said that was likely her last and no other appointments are currently on the books.

"Courtenay intends to continue to do all that she can in order to stay as well as she can, for as long as she can....committed to a strict diet, no sugar or carbs, and as healthy a life-style as she can manage."

Dream destination

Clapham has to stay closely monitored with the aggressive tumour still in play.

But with the crowdfunding campaign and generosity of the community, she and her husband have been given the chance to fulfill a dream and visit Niagara Falls.

The money is set to help pay for flights and accommodation to and from Toronto as part of efforts to help Clapham get closer to one of the world's most sought-after natural attractions.

If you wish to contribute to Clapham's honeymoon and add to the $15,350 already raised, as of this publication (Dec. 17), you can visit the GoFundMe campaign page.